Tum hi ho Bandhu !

ये दोस्ती हम नहीं तोड़ेंगे

तोड़ेंगे दम, मगर तेरा साथ न छोडे़ंगे !

The most iconic hindi song on friendship ever right !  In Friendship, Two friends are not together by blood relation but linked together by heart .

They are two people who have the same interests or the same opinions or who just enjoy each other’s company. It is very important to have good friends in your life who will be there with you in the long run. They advice you , make you laugh, sometimes laugh at you comfort you or most of the days make you day better .They are the one with who you can cry or laugh your heart to. They are the one who you would want to get stuck on a deserted island with. I love socialising and meeting new people. I regard every person I meet as my friend. But in my case my system or opinion of friendship is a lot like Instagram. I too have a close friends list which is a small list of the most trusted and loved humans by me. I have been very lucky with finding good friends. Who are with me no matter what. They don’t do big acts but small touching gestures of kindness which is heart touching and that is what makes good friends better. We don’t look for money in friendships, we look for the richness of qualities.We don’t look at the gadgets they own but how we click and connect without the gadgets. We don’t look for gifts from them, their love is the biggest gift for us. 

A friendship bond is a mix of covalent bond and ionic bond. Shared pair of electrons and hard to form, but when formed hard to overcome due to the strong linkage of the bond. They could be positive and negative Aka opposites or both of the same charge or personality.  So a bond is made in a day but takes years of contribution from both sides to build this relationship of trust. Friendship day is not the only day for friends, they are with you everyday , all the time. 

Well, my girl squad is my favourite thing at school and the best part we don’t talk about studies. We talk about our aspirations and dreams. We talk about our favourite movies and TV shows. We jam to songs and keep putting each other in embarrassing situations.

 Sometimes our conversations are about what would happen if you fall from a big stair at Gachibowli stadium or do people run fast because they have strong legs or long legs or just laughing for no reason at all ignoring all the weird stares. Our sleepovers involve a lot of binging, dancing , singing , gossiping, playing psych or heads up , falling off beds, taking loads of cool pictures and eating. We might not have been chudi buddies but still we are closer than ever. 

Friends at home are a little different than the ones at school. Different only because we do different things together. We have played almost all games together be it basketball , tennis , table tennis , swimming, cycling , running and many more. We have celebrated Diwali, Holi,Navratri, Ganesh Chaturthi, new year , Christmas and all the festivals together. 

But we are a big group so we have had our share of disagreements and fights but we put all those aside when we are dancing or partying together. They surprised me for my birthday and I don't know who gave me what gift all I know is that they made my day more special. Friendship is the biggest gift. They are the extended family at home. Basketball would not be fun without them. There is no party without them. 

Now , the secret of this blog post !

Well, it is one of my most closet and bestest friend’s birthday today so happy birthday and you are 16 yay ! This post is for her, to tell her what her friendship means to me. Yesterday was her birthday party and it was a blast.

I had to anchor the show but I fell short of words when I had to speak ! I was scared of breaking down because of how much her friendship means to me. Our throwback dance video was super embarrassing but also reminded that we have been friends for 7 years. I wanted to make sure your day was special and wanted to give something that is close to my heart so this blog is about friendship and to remind all of my friends how much they mean to me and you being the closest, on such an important phase of your life I had to write something for you. A few days back we were talking about different stages of our lives. We were master chef buddies, party buddies, dancing buddies, cycling buddies, running buddies, tennis buddies, basketball buddies, skating buddies, sleepover buddies, horse riding buddies,singing buddies, movie buddies, reading buddies and now parlour buddies, Yup , we have now become teen girlfriends and so many more of these are still left to be completed. You are my most favourite person and I want to keep our friendship with you forever even if we are going to be in different places fulfilling our dreams. Just know that I am there for you always , just like I know you will be there for me.So I want to show you how thankful I am for your presence in my life and to tell you that I am learning “buttering” from you. It is a slow process but don’t worry I will catch up. So Sunidhi thank you so much for coming into my life and making it amazing. I love you ! And hope you like my gift, this post , this is for you !